No kids, and I definitely do not want to divorce. I have been enduring this for 2.5 months now though, with no end in sight. She will not divorce me herself. It's a guilt thing,
You would be so wrong by assuming that.Guilt in this case has got nothing to do with it..She is simply cache eating.
She has the best of to world´s right now. She has Fantasy world.And a loving husband at home,in case it docent work out
with her lover boy. She is playing you,like a fiddle.
Read your post below,and you will get the picture i hope.
Why would she want a divorce? if it does not work out with OM
she know´s she always can come back home to you..
Why give such a sweet deal up?
I´m sorry man but i´m deliberately being harsh on you.
It just kill´s me when you allow your self to think so little of your self?
I know, but at the same time she became genuinely worried about never seeing me again.
After she came home today and subsequently returned to the OM, I texted her saying she should stop following her emotions because they just keep leading her back and forth between me and the OM, and I reminded her she only has a few days before she never see me again. Her reply? "That's your choice". Which leads me to believe she doesn't think I'll actually refrain from contacting her. So that's why I'm wondering if I should hold off on the D for a short while, enough time to let her know I'm serious about ceasing contact and to let her really experience life without me. Another concern is I've already given a hard date for the D, and postponing it could damage my credibility.