Not a fair question as it depends on WHAT he says, HOW he says it, and WHY he's saying it.Women do u view ur husbands opinions as something that ur father would say?
Your wife was TOTALLY out of line. She asked you to go to the bar AS A FAVOR TO HER and then when you say 'no' she throws it in your face that you're trying to control her like a father?!?
Nuh-uh! She owes you a big, fat, SOBER apology! Try to remember you were all drinking when she said it.