[CanadianGuy]

My wife who is LD compared to me has never read porn before. In other words I'm sure that some of the books she has read contained some sex but lately I've noticed that some of the books are pretty clear about the sexual content. For instance Lora Leigh books. She's reading one now. Is this a sign of some kind? I'm not worried or concerned just looking for insight. Thanks.

 

[EnjoliWoman]

My wife who is LD compared to me has never read porn before. In other words I'm sure that some of the books she has read contained some sex but lately I've noticed that some of the books are pretty clear about the sexual content. For instance Lora Leigh books. She's reading one now. Is this a sign of some kind? I'm not worried or concerned just looking for insight. Thanks.

Enjoy. Women are more turned on in our minds. This is mental porn and if it gets her in the mood, just enjoy it. I would worry if she gets restless because of unrealistic romance novels but reading some steamy scenes, playing them in her mind with her in the place of the character is just mental foreplay.

 

[AsTheStoryGoes]

When I read erotic books, I am more likely to jump my husbands bones multiple times on a daily basis. I have one of these books to thank for resulting in my second pregnancy. So, it could work out to lean in your favor.

 

[georgia girl]

My husband is very grateful for my books. They can be very educational. He is shy when it comes to telling me what he wants in bed and I was a virgin when we met so had no idea how to turn him on or what he might like. Thanks to the romance books that I have been reading we have gone from sex once every 2 weeks(if I was lucky) to every other day.(now I'm very lucky) Fifty Shades of Grey was the best education I have ever received and my husband has been smiling like crazy for weeks. Now

 

[KnK]

She probably just wants to get some ideas or spike her sex drive that's why I have read them.

I however have never and wont watch a porn video. Not condemning , it's just not for me but I have no problem reading a book I think it is more tasteful lol

 

[Lordhavok]

and what are some of these books? authors?

 

[40isthenew20]

If she is LD and took a first step with these books, then you are on the right path to enjoying more sex. '50 Shades of Grey' was one of my wisest investments as a gift for my wife, who was also LD until recently.

 

[georgia girl]

Lydia Joyce taught me to use frozen strawberries when giving my hubby oral. E.L James (Fifty Shades of Grey) taught me to loosen up and try new things. Connie Mason and Hannah Howell are very good also. Depends on what her tastes are. Brynn Paulin is great. Just because I like to read about threesome and gang bangs sometimes does NOT mean that I want to have one. It just turns me on to read about it.

 

[norajane]

Be grateful. It's keeping sex on her mind, and as a LD person, that's what you want and need to happen. Sexy starts in the mind.

 

[georgia girl]

BOTH of you need to read Fifty Shades of Grey !!!
You can learn a lot from it also.

 

[KnK]

What is LD??

 

[southern wife]

Low Drive (low sex drive)

 

[KnK]

Low Drive (low sex drive)

Ook thanks.. there have been a lot of things I haven't caught on to yet.

 

[southern wife]

Hmmmmmmmmmm maybe I need to start reading some erotica!

 

[KnK]

Hmmmmmmmmmm maybe I need to start reading some erotica!

Me personally like the sensual " He kissed her deeply , pressing her body close to his etc. " rather than the more graphic " His __ was throbbing , she ___ " yeah you get the picture lol

 

[chillymorn]

if shes low d because she masterbating to erotica instead of having sex with you that woud be a problem.

 

[AsTheStoryGoes]

BOTH of you need to read Fifty Shades of Grey !!!
You can learn a lot from it also.

I read it.. but none of it turned me on. AT ALL. I was so disappointed. Normally reading erotic books doesn't pose that problem for me.

 

[40isthenew20]

I grabbed each of the 50 Shades trilogy once my wife finished reading them and I didn't think it was a great read by any stretch, but loved some of the ideas that I hope are in my wife's head now from it.

She was a little critical of it but that didn't stop her from blowing right through them. Couldn't have been too bad then...

 

[CanadianGuy]

Thanks for all the great feedback! She read 50SOG and didn't like it. Or at least that's what she said. She found the characters to unbelievable ( very young woman/ older man ). She also said BDSM does not "do it" for her. She says she does not masturbate. Maybe she's started ( ? )

 

[chillymorn]

my wife also said she never masterbated ......until I caught her.