Hello,
This is the second thread I've posted on this site. The first one was about my frustrations with my wife and her possible infidelity and other issues. In that thread I explained how I wanted us to try counseling and work on things. She said no and asked me to move out. http://talkaboutmarriage.com/genera...how-should-i-proceed-my-unhappy-marriage.html
Now, when faced with the choice to just try with me or not she completely thrust a dagger right into my heart and into our family with 2 small children. If you read the last thread, then you will see that I was not perfect but I did not deserve this.
A couple weeks ago she text me that she was going to a Halloween party with someone from work a girlfriend. I had a bad vibe about it as she has been acting very secretive and hiding things. Long story short, I was able to record a phone call between her and her best friend as she described while giggling and laughing how she didn't go to any Halloween party buy went to her " little friends" house and how yummy he was. It went on and on. She then gleefully talks about how she almost has me convinced to move out of our house. She is utterly happy at the thought of our family being torn to shreds and our kids who I am involved with heavily and extremely attached to dealing with the effects. This occurred this past Saturday and I heard the recording on Sunday while away.
She did this while I lay in bed with our feverish 2yr old sleeping on my chest. I am seriously stuggling with this. This past week has been the hardest n my life. I have Cried more than my entire life. At work, I can't focus. I have to hide in a bathroom when I need to cry, I realize a man isn't supposed to do this. I felt my world crumbling around me and she has nothing but contempt from me. I asked her if we could try counseling and 2 days later she is banging some dude. She made her choice. But how could she?
People say I will be happier I the end and I don't see it, I'm talking to a lawyer and preparing for the hardest time of my life. Not seeing my kids every day will kill me. I just do not see how I will function. And all of this right before the holidays. I don't know if I can do this.
This is the second thread I've posted on this site. The first one was about my frustrations with my wife and her possible infidelity and other issues. In that thread I explained how I wanted us to try counseling and work on things. She said no and asked me to move out. http://talkaboutmarriage.com/genera...how-should-i-proceed-my-unhappy-marriage.html
Now, when faced with the choice to just try with me or not she completely thrust a dagger right into my heart and into our family with 2 small children. If you read the last thread, then you will see that I was not perfect but I did not deserve this.
A couple weeks ago she text me that she was going to a Halloween party with someone from work a girlfriend. I had a bad vibe about it as she has been acting very secretive and hiding things. Long story short, I was able to record a phone call between her and her best friend as she described while giggling and laughing how she didn't go to any Halloween party buy went to her " little friends" house and how yummy he was. It went on and on. She then gleefully talks about how she almost has me convinced to move out of our house. She is utterly happy at the thought of our family being torn to shreds and our kids who I am involved with heavily and extremely attached to dealing with the effects. This occurred this past Saturday and I heard the recording on Sunday while away.
She did this while I lay in bed with our feverish 2yr old sleeping on my chest. I am seriously stuggling with this. This past week has been the hardest n my life. I have Cried more than my entire life. At work, I can't focus. I have to hide in a bathroom when I need to cry, I realize a man isn't supposed to do this. I felt my world crumbling around me and she has nothing but contempt from me. I asked her if we could try counseling and 2 days later she is banging some dude. She made her choice. But how could she?
People say I will be happier I the end and I don't see it, I'm talking to a lawyer and preparing for the hardest time of my life. Not seeing my kids every day will kill me. I just do not see how I will function. And all of this right before the holidays. I don't know if I can do this.