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Latest update:
I got some helpful insight and we agreed to go through my pics and take out scandalous ones that send a bad message but keep ones that can be thought sexy but clearly aren’t a thirst trap(not sexual in nature, just me looking good 😎)
Happy compromise 😁
thanks everyone, i know it was very triggering to some. I won’t be replying anymore but feel free to discuss this further.
UPDATE:
Only responding to constructive and well intentioned replies, opposition is very welcome(and expected, my research confirms that my point of view is not common at all), trash talking is not. Also, I just want to inform y’all that my husband and I do not ever spare each other discomfort to avoid conflict. Thank you, but “Don’t do things that make each other Uncomfortable” is not helpful advice to us, it’s not our style
Hello everyone, I’d like to discuss openly and without judgement a topic that my husband and I discuss at length, often.
I posted pictures on social media, and they make my husband uncomfortable. Too sexy he says.
so once again, we’re going back and forth about what’s okay to post and what’s not.
Why is it disrespectful to your husband to post pictures some people will find sexy?
to clarify..
reasons I posted these pictures:
1.I’m showing off my figure, I train hard and I’m proud of it.
2. I really like my new workout clothes(which hubby encouraged me to buy) and want to show them off
3. Getting Likes(no interest or desire to receive comments or messages)
I would love insight and perspective, thank you!
EDIT:
Important information to viewers
I like taking pictures in general (lighting, pose, background) I’m not seeking male attention, I’m seeking likes as I do with ALL my pictures, including my son’s soccer games, and husbands fancy cooking. Lol
I got some helpful insight and we agreed to go through my pics and take out scandalous ones that send a bad message but keep ones that can be thought sexy but clearly aren’t a thirst trap(not sexual in nature, just me looking good 😎)
Happy compromise 😁
thanks everyone, i know it was very triggering to some. I won’t be replying anymore but feel free to discuss this further.
UPDATE:
Only responding to constructive and well intentioned replies, opposition is very welcome(and expected, my research confirms that my point of view is not common at all), trash talking is not. Also, I just want to inform y’all that my husband and I do not ever spare each other discomfort to avoid conflict. Thank you, but “Don’t do things that make each other Uncomfortable” is not helpful advice to us, it’s not our style
Hello everyone, I’d like to discuss openly and without judgement a topic that my husband and I discuss at length, often.
I posted pictures on social media, and they make my husband uncomfortable. Too sexy he says.
so once again, we’re going back and forth about what’s okay to post and what’s not.
Why is it disrespectful to your husband to post pictures some people will find sexy?
to clarify..
reasons I posted these pictures:
1.I’m showing off my figure, I train hard and I’m proud of it.
2. I really like my new workout clothes(which hubby encouraged me to buy) and want to show them off
3. Getting Likes(no interest or desire to receive comments or messages)
I would love insight and perspective, thank you!
EDIT:
Important information to viewers
I like taking pictures in general (lighting, pose, background) I’m not seeking male attention, I’m seeking likes as I do with ALL my pictures, including my son’s soccer games, and husbands fancy cooking. Lol