Truth. Not enough people treat their spouses the way they want to be treated. If more people did that, more people would be happy. Unfortunately, society isn't geared that way.I agree, but the truth is there are people who lean more towards giving and those who lean more towards taking, and you have to watch out for that BEFORE you get married. It's usually not just on one subject. But of course, sometimes that makes you more sympatico, but only if you don't resent it.