Wow. Some guys sure don't get it, do they?? Or maybe they're trying to justify something.^THIS^
He is hanging out with STRIPPERS. NOT with prostitutes. there is a YUGE difference. Along with the "private room" comes a muscular fellow named Bruno that bounces you out the door if you TOUCH the stripper. LOL
It is hard to say how far he went, and if he did also use prostitutes, but the "evidence" you have provided is very sparse as far as proving ANYTHING went on except for him watching some girls dance. Divorce him if you have to, but i think you are way over reacting.
If you do not believe me, go with him to the strip club, ask him to get you into a private room with one of his regulars and WATCH what happens.
You have totally and completely missed the point here.