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Keep in mind that he told her to go do what she wants. She also said he did attempt to sleep around, but couldn't. It is still adultery no matter how you slice it, but it just shows the whole unhealthy dynamic of this marriage. I think it is time to end it.I don't get it.. I truly don't, we in the west screwed up and came up with our own crap in marriages and that's why we have a a society that's missed up completely!
How does she have the right to step out just because the separation?!
Separation doesn't nullify the vows you make, it doesn't, no matter how you want to spin it, you still will be committing adultery if you step out!
The fact that many people talk about boundaries when they separate (Unless they go to Church and nullify it) shows you how they don't understand the vows they took when getting married!
Even if your spouse tells you you can have sex outside the marriage it's still doesn't nullify the vows and if you do it its considered adultery!
Maybe I got it wrong!
Maybe someone can enlighten me!