It sounds like you're miserable from, the screen I am looking at. And yes you may love your wife and your kids, but you're correct she doesn't love you or doe not know how to love you. Which is worse?I’m not miserable just lonely in the Lover department
Love my house and kids etc. Love my wife but I guess deep down she don’t love me that’s why she not giving me answers
Knowing that you will never be the man that she can love or being used that she can keep appearances up? There's not much you can do about this. But continue to take all the responsibility of her happiness. Life isn't that simple.