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Do any of you have sex while Aunt Flo is visiting?

For some reason I can't. It causes incredible cramping and increases my already heavy flow. It's extremely uncomfortable.

We've tried, but I just don't like the consequences of it. The only time I can do this at the very end.
 

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We never did this until ...well.. .a few years ago... I felt like I was going to die waiting that long (yes I am exaggerating).... I was never one to get many cramps... husband had no issues with it , he'd just tell me to get the red towel....we just avoid the HEAVY day(s)... but a little flow...
..he was happy to give it to me.

I just wouldn't allow him to look afterwards while I went & cleaned him up.

Kinda gross I suppose but I was thrilled - he was into it. Besides the Red, and well a little more lubrication than normal, it never affected me at all, didn't make anything heavier or more crampy.
 

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SA, you are lucky. The cramping is so intense. It's very hard to refrain when your drive is so high. :/

We use black towels. I'm afraid of washing red towels in the laundry of the color leaking all over everything. Men's pink undershirts, socks and underwear crack me up! We had red flannel sheets once that bled the entire laundry.
 

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Yes, we still do. I am the opposite of you though, sex and orgasms helps alleviate some of the cramps.

Never had any issues, and it doesn't bother the H. My breasts get hyper sensitive though, so I did have to explain to him to be extremely gentle, or its painful.
 

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I'll be patient and wait the week ! She'll often give me oral if i really need a release !?!?
I know how odd this must sound to the majority of men out there, but my husband would choose rag
over a voluptuous BJ ...sure he loves them & gets at least 1 during that time frame -but he wants me to get mine ....this makes him happiest. I kinda love that about him though !!
 

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I know how odd this must sound to the majority of men out there, but my husband would choose rag
over a voluptuous BJ ...sure he loves them & gets at least 1 during that time frame -but he wants me to get mine ....this makes him happiest. I kinda love that about him though !!
No not odd at all ....... each person is different and has different desires !! I can somewhat understand cause i assume one would be " extra " wet there but despite this i'll pass ! Besides my wife is especially ummmmm good in give BJs :) !!
 

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OP - day one I'm the same, makes me cramp and feel worse... but I bleeding pretty heavy on D1 anyway so not feeling overly 'sex kittenish'.

On the other period days we either do 'other stuff' or have shower sex or we get out the red towel and go for it!

If h is horny and I'm not..... I'm always happy to give him a TJ (titty job), BJ or a HJ.

He generally just says ' yes please' for anything i offer.
 

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Orgasms relieve my cramping.
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OP - day one I'm the same, makes me cramp and feel worse... but I bleeding pretty heavy on D1 anyway so not feeling overly 'sex kittenish'.

On the other period days we either do 'other stuff' or have shower sex or we get out the red towel and go for it!

If h is horny and I'm not..... I'm always happy to give him a TJ (titty job), BJ or a HJ.

He generally just says ' yes please' for anything i offer.

This as well if cramps are followed by way to heavy and messy a flow, which is rare for me lately.
 

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Orgasms relieve my cramping.
Yes... this used to work for me too. I used to bring myself to O just to ease cramps.

Something has changed over the past 5ish years and it doesn't happen like that anymore :confused:

Now it causes discomfort and really really heavy bleeding... I'd rather just give it a miss...for that one day every 26 days.
 

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Yes... this used to work for me too. I used to bring myself to O just to ease cramps.

Something has changed over the past 5ish years and it doesn't happen like that anymore :confused:

Now it causes discomfort and really really heavy bleeding... I'd rather just give it a miss...for that one day every 26 days.
Has your weight changed? This can have an impact on the way that your period effects you.

Or birth control changes, but I'm guessing that's not the case at this point in life... ;)
 

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We do it. One of the many things I love about my husband is that he's not grossed out by the mess. I can see why a man would be grossed out, I think I would be if I didn't have to deal with it every month anyways.
 

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Has your weight changed? This can have an impact on the way that your period effects you.

Or birth control changes, but I'm guessing that's not the case at this point in life... ;)
No to weight change and birth control. Been the same weight all my adult life (apart from pregnancies) and H had the 'snip' about 15 years ago so I'm clean of fake hormones :D

I'm 45 and from about 40 my periods have got shorter and heavier. I literally flood on day one but by day three it's all over.

But I complain very quietly about it as I know of a few women having a really terrible time with peri-menopause ( I have a friend who bleeds almost continuously while her doctors fiddle around with hormones and the like)

I am sooooo not going to miss having periods!
 

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But I complain very quietly about it as I know of a few women having a really terrible time with peri-menopause ( I have a friend who bleeds almost continuously while her doctors fiddle around with hormones and the like)

I am sooooo not going to miss having periods!
I hear you loud and clear! I am not going to mourn that loss at all! (Though I'm still a good decade out).

And some women sure do get a rough deal on this. Glad I got a lucky genetic roll on this one.
 

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We enjoy it quite a lot and no one should let the “mess” factor deter them. You just need to be a little more careful. We draw the line at oral however.
 
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