Some of you may remember my post a few months back in the infidelity section, if not here is a recap:
My wife cheated on me while I was away on a business trip and left me shortly afterwards. I was devastated and grieved heavily for months. More recently, I've severed all ties with my ex and have been patiently waiting for someone else.
Last weekend my best bud set me up with a date with his girlfriends cousin. We hit it off instantly and things moved extremely fast. We went out, had an amazingly fun time and began feeling each other out; only to realize that we have nearly everything in common. Now, she's not a sl*t, she hadn't had sex literally in years (and the proof was in the details) but by the end of the night we ended up having sex.
The next day we cuddled and kissed at every opportunity, we went out again, though this time she was much closer to me in public. Then she had to go back home (about an hour away) to work, and has been working every day since then. We haven't seen each other and I'm trying not to make too forceful of an effort.
First date sex. For some reason this kind of scares me because I really like this girl and want to eventually date her. I pumped my breaks and I'm trying to figure out what to do and it almost seems like she is doing the same thing. I'm trying to keep my distance, but I'm still keeping in touch every other day or so (that's the plan at least, it has only been a few days since we hooked up).
Is it possible to make a relationship work when the ice gets broken too quickly? Is her distance because she wants to move slower like I do? Is she embarrassed? I may be thinking too deeply into this, but I don't want to goof this up. Even if it doesn't work I'll be just fine, I'm not desperate. I just see a wonderful opportunity and want to make it happen.
Thanks for reading!
My wife cheated on me while I was away on a business trip and left me shortly afterwards. I was devastated and grieved heavily for months. More recently, I've severed all ties with my ex and have been patiently waiting for someone else.
Last weekend my best bud set me up with a date with his girlfriends cousin. We hit it off instantly and things moved extremely fast. We went out, had an amazingly fun time and began feeling each other out; only to realize that we have nearly everything in common. Now, she's not a sl*t, she hadn't had sex literally in years (and the proof was in the details) but by the end of the night we ended up having sex.
The next day we cuddled and kissed at every opportunity, we went out again, though this time she was much closer to me in public. Then she had to go back home (about an hour away) to work, and has been working every day since then. We haven't seen each other and I'm trying not to make too forceful of an effort.
First date sex. For some reason this kind of scares me because I really like this girl and want to eventually date her. I pumped my breaks and I'm trying to figure out what to do and it almost seems like she is doing the same thing. I'm trying to keep my distance, but I'm still keeping in touch every other day or so (that's the plan at least, it has only been a few days since we hooked up).
Is it possible to make a relationship work when the ice gets broken too quickly? Is her distance because she wants to move slower like I do? Is she embarrassed? I may be thinking too deeply into this, but I don't want to goof this up. Even if it doesn't work I'll be just fine, I'm not desperate. I just see a wonderful opportunity and want to make it happen.
Thanks for reading!