It is for me, no question. So why not focus on getting more toned/fit (if you aren’t already). It’s the healthier option FOR YOU and at least should increase your confidence to be more sexually forward.I think a majority of men are more focused on body than face.
Oh and jacked up hormonal levels can truly do a number on a man. Ask me how I know. Do NOT send him to an average urologist or GP doc. Mine tested my T and said I was fine. Turns out at 45 I had the T levels of a 95 yr old man. NOT FINE. I recommend Defy Medical. They’re completely online and will remotely orchestrate a full lab work up.