I am 32 years old and my sex life with my husband is bordering on the mundane. I dated my husband for 10 years before we got married and had four years of marriage. Even I will admit that sex between us is no longer mind-blowing. Especially since we had our son. Yes he is 4yrs old but he is a differently-abled child. We hard get any time for each other, not to mention since I had my son, I've put on considerable weight since then. I'm doing my best to lose it but it's real difficult. I'm humbled when he tells me that I still look beautiful, but I no longer feel that way. How can I put the spark back into my marriage? I love my husband very much and worship the ground he walks on - it would crush me if he walks - a man of his caliber in this day and age is hard to find.