My husband and I have been married going on 10 years. We average 2 to 3 times per week - (except during that time of the month, when I do not want to do anything -he is a real crab that week and kinda mean to me - like I can help it) He is constantly complaining that he NEVER gets laid its so bad that sometimes I will keep tabs on a calendar and show him how often he is getting some kind of activity. Sometimes he even makes comments that he is going to have to start looking elsewhere!? What the!.............it really ticks me off and it is a huge turn off. Its not like he is Mr Romance, he never tells me that I am pretty or that I look nice and the last time we went out without the kids (we have 2, the youngest is 17 months) was almost a year ago. I get no affection what so ever during the day, no hugs, no kisses and he never tells me he loves me and yet the minute we got to bed I am supposed to be ready to go!!!! It's getting to a point where it feels like a chore but I know if I don't do it he'll just get verbally mean or cheat. Is 2 to 3 times per week really low for being married 10 years (both in our 40's) How can I bring back the spark?