Well for all of you going through seperation, I find my situation very difficult. We agreed to seperate and in the agreement we chose to live in the same house until we sold it. We are still frineds as we do go out and have fun, but once out, she will flirt with every guy she cans, tease them, dance with them and then ask me for a ride home.
She is now doing things that if she had done while we were married we probably still be married. What the hell is that all about? I do not get it. She is taking care of her finances, getting to be very social, hangin out with our friends. Very motivated to get things done.
I asked her why she is stepping up and getting so invoilved and having all this energy to take care of things and move forward so fast. Things I always asked to do when we were married but she would never step up. Much to my disapointment, her answer was why should she have I was doing it all... then she got pissed... Now she is angry with me as I could not beleive this.
Please explain this behviour to me?.. How can she be pissed at me now, when obviously she was taking advantage of me and my situation.
She is now doing things that if she had done while we were married we probably still be married. What the hell is that all about? I do not get it. She is taking care of her finances, getting to be very social, hangin out with our friends. Very motivated to get things done.
I asked her why she is stepping up and getting so invoilved and having all this energy to take care of things and move forward so fast. Things I always asked to do when we were married but she would never step up. Much to my disapointment, her answer was why should she have I was doing it all... then she got pissed... Now she is angry with me as I could not beleive this.
Please explain this behviour to me?.. How can she be pissed at me now, when obviously she was taking advantage of me and my situation.