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You mentioned that she is unstable.

That is the crux of the problem, no other descriptive words need to be attached.

She is going through a phase, the seven year itch, mid-life crisis, something.......and she has lost control of her thoughts and actions.

She is having sex with you on a regular basis to keep you sated. So that you do not go out and find her replacement.

She wants to leave, but the circumstances have not been favorable to her, at this juncture.

She has a plan, one that is either foggy, or is still developing.

She may be shopping online for a new partner
 
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SunCMars,
it is very sad and true indeed. so what s your suggestion? what would you do in my shoes?
I read your most recent posts.

Don't bother checking up on her, she is obviously a cheater.

File for divorce, immediately!

Then ghost her, as much as possible.
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One, related question: Is there a waiting period in your state where you must be separated for some period, prior to divorce?
 
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Yes. 1 year. I can't ghost her too much. We have a 6 yrs old daughter :-/
She may know this and is biding her time?

See a lawyer, get the time she moved out to be officially on the divorce clock.

Start the 180 on her.

Only talk about your shared child's issues, nothing else.
Shut down any of her extraneous conversations.
She has earned the silent treatment.

You need a break from her lying and her truth spinning.
 
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