Dude, stop, stop being a Simp. Stop you passive behavior. Do what's in your best interest and forget about the well being of all others.I agree that this information can wait until after the wedding. What confuses me is that the couples counselor suggested that we tell the kids ASAP. And tell them together. That worries me because if she starts lying or attacking me in front of them, a fight is going to start. Then our family are going to pick sides and things will get super messy. Do I make sense?
The wedding is in 3 months so that gives me time to prepare behind the scenes for a quick move after. Thinking more financial moves and making a separation agreement. The law here requires a separation for one year before filing for divorce but before moving out of the house I want her to sign a legal agreement.
It just amazes me to see how ridiculously beta and submissive a lot of men are these days. Is like they were given estrogen shots since birth, while the women are getting more and more like testosterone laden bulls when it comes to divorce. These days, normally when the woman wants a divorce she's so far ahead of the poor Simp of a husband that when he tries to react he has already been roasted. When the dude tries to tell his side of the story he already has been tried and convicted in the court of public opinion.