My personality is leaning more towards positive beta and I do posses some positive alpha traits. Physically I am not that bad, well toned and well dress, after all I do take care of myself, as I am only 30 years old. We dated for 2 years and married for 4 years. From day one, I was always the one doing the most housework; I do it to show my appreciations of her. All she does is cook when we didn't have any children. You can say that I spoiled her, but I didn't see that before.
We have a 2 years old son now. Financially we are very stable, let just say we have everything we wanted. For a year, I hired a house cleaning service, all she has to do is cook us dinner and taking care of our son, but now since we have her mother prepared dinner, all she need is to heated up when we get home.
BTW, we are not living with her parents, we live close by, so her mother prepares dinner and she will pick it up after her long day do nothing but go to the yoga class, hair salon, facial, etc. pampering herself and going to classes.
The past 3 months our housekeeper quit and I became the person doing most of the housework.