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I am in a marriage that has been troubled extensively from about 6 months in. My Husband has recently told me that because of our lack of sex life at the time, that he, like any male, searched elsewhere. He did not have a sexual affair, although it was definitely an emotional one. I was 5 months pregnant with our daughter at the time, with extreme health issues. After that, he took out a credit card and hid it from me. then proceeded to rack it up. He has lied to me countless times about money.
Since we had our son, 4 years ago, he has told me to leave countless times in the midst of an argument. The most recent time was Oct 25 when he got in my face and screamed at me to get the F out of his house (which is ours). We have only been married for 2 and a half years, and the last 2 years have been something of a nightmare.
I am not sure how I feel anymore, nor am I sure if I will be able to trust in him or trust that he won't hurt me again.
He has started counselling, but it seems the focus is on the marriage instead of him.
Over the last month he is getting impatient with me for being distant and not "wifely".... I don't even know how to begin to heal myself....
Since we had our son, 4 years ago, he has told me to leave countless times in the midst of an argument. The most recent time was Oct 25 when he got in my face and screamed at me to get the F out of his house (which is ours). We have only been married for 2 and a half years, and the last 2 years have been something of a nightmare.
I am not sure how I feel anymore, nor am I sure if I will be able to trust in him or trust that he won't hurt me again.
He has started counselling, but it seems the focus is on the marriage instead of him.
Over the last month he is getting impatient with me for being distant and not "wifely".... I don't even know how to begin to heal myself....