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We've been separated for a year and a half. Not divorced yet, but filed. I am WAY over him. But it still bothers me that he has a girlfriend. They have been dating for about 10 months now and are moving in together next month.
Our son just got into a car accident and had to have spine surgery. So my "ex" decides that now is the right time to parade her around in front of me for the first time, in our son's hospital room while he is recovering from surgery. Classy, huh?
The kiddo was ok with it because he knows her, but I was not so much. Although I know it isn't up to me and I have no say so in the matter. I still waited until they left and then excused myself and cried like a baby.
I don't "miss" him, and I certainly DON'T want him back. But that upset me. I want to get over it now. Sigh.... How much longer am I going to be upset by the fact that he has a girlfriend??? It seems silly to be upset by it because I really don't care.
Our son just got into a car accident and had to have spine surgery. So my "ex" decides that now is the right time to parade her around in front of me for the first time, in our son's hospital room while he is recovering from surgery. Classy, huh?
The kiddo was ok with it because he knows her, but I was not so much. Although I know it isn't up to me and I have no say so in the matter. I still waited until they left and then excused myself and cried like a baby.
I don't "miss" him, and I certainly DON'T want him back. But that upset me. I want to get over it now. Sigh.... How much longer am I going to be upset by the fact that he has a girlfriend??? It seems silly to be upset by it because I really don't care.