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It's been a few days since my H and I have had sex. Last night I came home from work to find porn on the laptop. It's no big deal, I can't blame him because I've been a bit tired this week. He was going out for the evening with a buddy and I decided to try to flirt with him a little and be his own personal porn star when he got home.
So I go about my evening, work out, shower, put on some perfume and a set of lacy bra & panties that I know he likes. Then I text him a picture of me in the panties as a preview. No response.
I finally get a call to pick him up because it's raining outside and he doesn't want to walk home. So I have to get dressed and go out in the rain to pick him up. Then he offers to give his buddy a ride home too so we don't get home for another 30 minutes and I'll admit that I was a bit miffed at this turn of events and it probably showed.
We get home and I'm hoping that the picture had some effect and he would make a move. But he proceeds to look at some packages we got in the mail, look at our new dishwasher, etc. By the time we get to bed, I'm so disappointed and feeling rejected that it totally ruined the mood. He said he liked the picture but got the impression from my mood while picking him up that I wasn't feeling receptive to any advances. This might be valid, it was all just bad timing I guess.
My question is - it seems like every time I try to wear a sexy outfit or do something a little flirty or dangerous, he either doesn't seem to take action or he gives me this smile like "oh, isn't she adorable, she's trying to be sexy" rather than "DAMN, my woman is hot, I must have her NOW". I know he is attracted to me but how do I tell him that sometimes I want him to TAKE me. Maybe I just really suck at seduction. I don't know what to do to make him take me seriously. He just seems to think I'm being cute.
Any advice?
So I go about my evening, work out, shower, put on some perfume and a set of lacy bra & panties that I know he likes. Then I text him a picture of me in the panties as a preview. No response.
I finally get a call to pick him up because it's raining outside and he doesn't want to walk home. So I have to get dressed and go out in the rain to pick him up. Then he offers to give his buddy a ride home too so we don't get home for another 30 minutes and I'll admit that I was a bit miffed at this turn of events and it probably showed.
We get home and I'm hoping that the picture had some effect and he would make a move. But he proceeds to look at some packages we got in the mail, look at our new dishwasher, etc. By the time we get to bed, I'm so disappointed and feeling rejected that it totally ruined the mood. He said he liked the picture but got the impression from my mood while picking him up that I wasn't feeling receptive to any advances. This might be valid, it was all just bad timing I guess.
My question is - it seems like every time I try to wear a sexy outfit or do something a little flirty or dangerous, he either doesn't seem to take action or he gives me this smile like "oh, isn't she adorable, she's trying to be sexy" rather than "DAMN, my woman is hot, I must have her NOW". I know he is attracted to me but how do I tell him that sometimes I want him to TAKE me. Maybe I just really suck at seduction. I don't know what to do to make him take me seriously. He just seems to think I'm being cute.
Any advice?