So to start off my wife and I have been married for 4 years and have 2 beautiful boys. But recently I got a new job that requires me to travel a bit. First time I was gone a week, I come back and my wife is acting differently (not herself). I thought it was just me so let it go a couple of days, then I confront her about it. She said that she loves me, but shes not in love with me. We talk about it and I agree to give her space and let her come back to me when she can. Two days later she tells me that shes in love with me and thinks it was an emotional response to me leaving that she shut down her feels so she wouldn't miss me. So going good for a couple months and then I have to leave again for a month, but come back on weekends. And 3 days before I leave I notice shes acting the way she was when I came back. I confront her immediately, she says yet again that shes not in love with. But this time she said she hasn't been for a very long time. Said that she doesn't think that she was in love with me when we got married, and it none of this never occurred to her until recently. So we talk again and she says she wants to try work it out without separating. So I leave for my job, and we skype everyday and she tells me that I am her bestfriend, but she loves me but not in love with me. And said if I am ok with that we can stay together. I want to stay with her but every weekend that I go home I afraid that shes gonna tell me it's not going to work out. I've been stepping up my game with her to prove to her that I'm in this 100%. But she still seems real distant somedays and other days it's all lovey dovey. I don't know what to do anymore more it's driving me crazy. So is this something that some else has gone though or anyone have advice for me.