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Wow.. im beyond shock saw on my husband’s phone browser he was on a swinger forum page it was so quick i didnt see if it was a porn forum Or if he is really into being a swinger, the topic was about what kind of porn do you like to watch.. i see my husband as a good father not so much a good husband to me as he has some narcissistic characteristics and he calls me fat and tells me im unattractive.. hurt my feelins, gives me the silent treatment.. he is a religious and cultural guy talk nice to his family and showoff to his family but he treats me so bad soemtimes it hurts and im shock he is even on a forum like that.. it disgust me if he even daydream think to have sex with someone’s esle wife and me with thier husband.. yall i cannot look pass this i dont wven know how to approach him and its been 4 days and im just disgust at it.. i feel so gross out i dont know how i can look at him the same…im a hopeless romantics and he is not giving me any loving romantic feelings anymore im just hanging on day by day for my kids…. :(
Why do you think he wants you in all of this???
Looks to me like he is looking for ways to sleep with other women (and men?).

What you describe doesn't sound he is into you.
The way he treats you tells me you should work ob leaving him and not bother about his online sexual activity.

Don't fool yourself believing your problems in marriage or bed are based on him wanting to become a swinger and that he still loves you and that he is dreaming about you participating in it.

There is nothing to approach except starting to accept 'he isn't into you' anymore. Has nothing to do with his interest in swinging.
 
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