Is there anyone here who has been married for several years and has been satisfied with their sex life as a whole their entire marriage? If so, perhaps you could share some reasons as to why you think it has been problem free. Is it as simple as just having compatible drives and desires? Perhaps there was a lull, but you worked it out and it didn't become a real problem. Perhaps it is the attitude of both partners. What has made your sex life satisfying and problem free?