My husband never wants to spend time with me and the intimacy between us is few and far between. We dont sleep in the same bed cause I toss and turn alot, and it was fine for me cause he used to come and cuddle every morning and now he doesn't. He is a workaholic and barely says anything to me. We moved for his job and I've been unemployed minus freelance work and he blames me for a lot if stuff since he pays my student loans and our car. He said he doesn't mind paying for my horse that I had for 7 years before we got married knowing I wouldn't have a job when we moved. Now, he uses the horse against me. He threatens divorce all the time, but says he would feel guilty since "I can't take care of myself " he wasn't like this when we dated and first married, only since we moved over a year ago.