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Right thing to do?

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Was up late last night, couldn't sleep. At 5am I wrote an email to H, I pretty much let rip about how unfair and angry I was. I dumped all the venom and bitterness id been carrying with me. I nearly sent it but thought as it was 5am maybe I should see how I feel the next day. Today is here and I'm relived i didn't send it. So tempting last night as I'd worked myself up into a state. I can't even find the email, definitely wasn't sent (thank god!) and not in saved. I thought I saved it but maybe I deleted it, just as well I guess. This was the right thing to do, right??

I should have gone on TAM last night to talk about it, but my laptop battery had died.
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Dollystanford
yes much better not to send it
when my ex posted that he'd met his soulmate on FB recently I drafted a short, incredibly snide text taking the piss out of how utterly tragic I thought he was...but I knew that if I sent it it would just sound like sour grapes and he would see it as a victory

So I held myself back and am soooo glad I did :)
What I actually did was defriend him and change my name back to my maiden name on FB without saying a single word, not that I'm passive aggressive ha ha
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Yes it is, and I know it's going to take a little while to get everything changed over but it will be worth it - I was called THAT longer than I've been called THIS ;)
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