So I have always held women to a higher standard then I do men. Sad I know. From all the stories on here and other forums it is always made out to be that the MM initiates and pursues the OW. Boy was that so off the mark. I created a fake male profile on a website using my husband's age (mid 30s)and the status being married to see what kind of responses he would get. I am flabergasted. I have seen IMs and pending request from a ton of women from age 22-50, some single and some divorced. The funny part is when they say that their men have cheated on them but the are looking for fun. Wholly cow, I have had my eyes opened wide.