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My husband and I are friends with this couple. They are going through a difficult time right now. Financially things are looking bad and we feel they are heading for divorce. Husband is very passive and wife is overbearing. The reason I've tolerated this relationship is primarily because of of my husband's work relationship with the husband.
Lately, however, I have found the wife's behavior to be unacceptable. Every event where she is present, she proceeds to get blackout drunk. During these episodes, she verbally abuses her husband (who pretends none of this is happening). She has accused other friends of ours of flirting with other people's wives/husbands. basically she's a.) a person who likes to stir the pot and b.) is very unhappy and would prefer if others were unhappy as well.
I really want to distance myself from this woman. That also means her husband as they are a package deal. My husband disagrees and wants me to tolerate her because he works with her husband.
I just feel like this woman is toxic. Everytime we're around her we argue, I just don't know who to handle this situation. I just feel like in a marriage, there are certain relationships that are good for your marriage and certain ones that are bad. We're newlyweds and I don't think being around someone whoo constantly talks about divorcing her husband is best for use.
Any advice is appreciated.
Lately, however, I have found the wife's behavior to be unacceptable. Every event where she is present, she proceeds to get blackout drunk. During these episodes, she verbally abuses her husband (who pretends none of this is happening). She has accused other friends of ours of flirting with other people's wives/husbands. basically she's a.) a person who likes to stir the pot and b.) is very unhappy and would prefer if others were unhappy as well.
I really want to distance myself from this woman. That also means her husband as they are a package deal. My husband disagrees and wants me to tolerate her because he works with her husband.
I just feel like this woman is toxic. Everytime we're around her we argue, I just don't know who to handle this situation. I just feel like in a marriage, there are certain relationships that are good for your marriage and certain ones that are bad. We're newlyweds and I don't think being around someone whoo constantly talks about divorcing her husband is best for use.
Any advice is appreciated.