First of all, your parents are NOT the ones getting married. YOU ARE!
You need to follow your heart. If you're both in love with each other and want to be with one another, your parents aren't going to hate you for the rest of your life or dis-own you just because you marry into a regular family. I mean you cant buy love. That's earned.
Mind you, money will be and mostly always is important in relationship, but thats NOT what it is about. You have to do what makes you happy. Your parents will see how happy you are if thats the case and will accept it, because thats really what it should be about.
You need to follow your heart. If you're both in love with each other and want to be with one another, your parents aren't going to hate you for the rest of your life or dis-own you just because you marry into a regular family. I mean you cant buy love. That's earned.
Mind you, money will be and mostly always is important in relationship, but thats NOT what it is about. You have to do what makes you happy. Your parents will see how happy you are if thats the case and will accept it, because thats really what it should be about.