That sooner or later he is going to hit you...
I will agree with Homemaker, that if this isn't his normal behavior, he still needs to know that he was behaving in a way that was unacceptable. He can either open up and get help for anger issues, or he can talk to you and tell you what is happening that made him act so out of character.He is a very understanding person & this is the first time anything like this has happened in 8 years. I will sit him down tonight & discuss it. Thank you DawnD.
So did he actually hit you? Or maybe you are saying you hid? At any rate, I sure hope you have read these posts before you decided to talk to him by yourself! Please, please, please be CAREFUL! I for sure agree he needs to seek medical attention. If he won't, you need to find a safe place.I relied on my husband to get me a battery for my car. A few days had past and I tried to start my car and of course it was dead. I went in and asked him and he forgot, and said it wasn't his responsibility (by the way, he is a mechanic). I flipped that it was his fault & he was huffed and puffed. He backed his car out to help me and hit the side of the garage, which messed up his bumper. He got out of his car & was furious, he threw my battery cover against the house and then pulled his arm back to hit me, he stopped and ran over to me. As this was happening, I was pleading that I would get a ride to work. He then grabbed my shoulders and took me away from the neighbors view (i am sure they heard & saw enough). while holding my shoulders, he screamed at me that I keep making him so mad, that I don't ever take the blame for anything I do. Then I got away & hit in the back until he drove away. What the heck do I make of this?
Maybe he does and maybe he doesn't control his temper around others. OP should talk to other people he is around and see if they have noticed any changes in him.He manages to control his temper at work and every other place he goes. .