I figured i would ask you TAMer's about this, I am taking inventory of what is happening currently.
Below are the facts:
11 weeks Seperated (physically)
I currently in NC & 180
I go to IC
No posOM
STBXW has been on mutliple spending sprees
Me - 34
STBXW-30
2S's - 3 & 1.5
D papers filed day of S
STBXW only texts (kids only)
I have noticed the last month that my STBXW appears to be pulling farther away the more i do NC. I mean she does not contact me at all. Whereas about 3-4wks ago she would send photos of the kids here and there and certain things about the boys. But as soon as i began NC she has stopped doing those things.
This makes me question my NC with STBXW. Am i doing the right thing by NC? She used to complain to no end that i did not talk enuff, text her enuff, send her pics of the boys enuff, and listen to her when we were married. In the bebegining of the S i followed the 5 love languages, told her i appreciated her she repsonded positivly. 5 wks ago i would text her everyday at least once, "either good morning" or "how are the kids" and she promptly responded in detail. Now she only responds with short answers like me.
I am questioning my NC, do i keep doing NC or do i open lines of comunication a little?:scratchhead:
FYI - we are going to see each other at the kids xmas party on the 14th.
Below are the facts:
11 weeks Seperated (physically)
I currently in NC & 180
I go to IC
No posOM
STBXW has been on mutliple spending sprees
Me - 34
STBXW-30
2S's - 3 & 1.5
D papers filed day of S
STBXW only texts (kids only)
I have noticed the last month that my STBXW appears to be pulling farther away the more i do NC. I mean she does not contact me at all. Whereas about 3-4wks ago she would send photos of the kids here and there and certain things about the boys. But as soon as i began NC she has stopped doing those things.
This makes me question my NC with STBXW. Am i doing the right thing by NC? She used to complain to no end that i did not talk enuff, text her enuff, send her pics of the boys enuff, and listen to her when we were married. In the bebegining of the S i followed the 5 love languages, told her i appreciated her she repsonded positivly. 5 wks ago i would text her everyday at least once, "either good morning" or "how are the kids" and she promptly responded in detail. Now she only responds with short answers like me.
I am questioning my NC, do i keep doing NC or do i open lines of comunication a little?:scratchhead:
FYI - we are going to see each other at the kids xmas party on the 14th.