My partner cheated on my, and I have read in one of his emails to her:
..., if x would not catch us on act, I would choise for you. As you are my reason for existance. I finally understand why I was born on this world. And my happiness can only be complete by taking care of you. I want to take care of you and your children, this is my only reason for living. .....
He now tells me that despite he has written this, he would have never really choise for her. That is was a nice dream, an illusion where he could let out of his lost/frustrated feelings, that he was not able anymore to share with me.
I tell him, you can not write something like that without feeling that in your heart and brain and body and believe it. He says yes, maybe I did at that moment, but if you would have walked it and put me back in reality, I know would never go gor her. I would always go for you.
So dear cheaters in here, what is your view on this? Can someone really put thngs down like this and not mean it?
..., if x would not catch us on act, I would choise for you. As you are my reason for existance. I finally understand why I was born on this world. And my happiness can only be complete by taking care of you. I want to take care of you and your children, this is my only reason for living. .....
He now tells me that despite he has written this, he would have never really choise for her. That is was a nice dream, an illusion where he could let out of his lost/frustrated feelings, that he was not able anymore to share with me.
I tell him, you can not write something like that without feeling that in your heart and brain and body and believe it. He says yes, maybe I did at that moment, but if you would have walked it and put me back in reality, I know would never go gor her. I would always go for you.
So dear cheaters in here, what is your view on this? Can someone really put thngs down like this and not mean it?