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Just curious actually... for me from time to time I enjoy man-handling my wife, and she enjoys it too. In fact, I always save up our favourite positions (standing) for the sessions when I'm the dom. Puts her in a bliss everytime.
However, it's not something that happens all the time. Sometimes I'm in a loving mood, other times I'm in a playful mood, then other times I just like to force her down and have my way with her. But!
There have been times when at the back of my mind I wonder if it's actually rape. There are times when she's doing something and I just grab her and take her to bed kicking and screaming. Sometimes her responses are teasing and playful, other times she really means no but I take her anyway.
She never complains after the deed is done though, about 5 minutes into it whatever was on her mind disappears and then she starts getting carried away with the sex. Still... isn't it bad?
Could this be why she has a fantasy of bending ME over and doing me up the ass (which I will NEVER let her do)? She has a lot of rape fantasies involving me... which is downright scary to be honest. Am I contributing to this?
Also, in the past she tortured me sexually and no safe word helped. She hasn't since, but aren't I doing the same thing to her when she says no (as in NO) and I take her anyway?
However, it's not something that happens all the time. Sometimes I'm in a loving mood, other times I'm in a playful mood, then other times I just like to force her down and have my way with her. But!
There have been times when at the back of my mind I wonder if it's actually rape. There are times when she's doing something and I just grab her and take her to bed kicking and screaming. Sometimes her responses are teasing and playful, other times she really means no but I take her anyway.
She never complains after the deed is done though, about 5 minutes into it whatever was on her mind disappears and then she starts getting carried away with the sex. Still... isn't it bad?
Could this be why she has a fantasy of bending ME over and doing me up the ass (which I will NEVER let her do)? She has a lot of rape fantasies involving me... which is downright scary to be honest. Am I contributing to this?
Also, in the past she tortured me sexually and no safe word helped. She hasn't since, but aren't I doing the same thing to her when she says no (as in NO) and I take her anyway?