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My question is for the BS's out there.
My situation:
My STBEW had many, many affairs. The last one (as far as I know for sure)
was about 18 months ago. I do not trust her, really at all. Some days I feel if I agree to 50/50 custody after the divorce, things will be ok.
But there are many other days I feel if I agreed to 50/50 custody, she will continue her selfish ways and not do what is in the best interest of our minor children.
For those of you that got a divorce and custody ended up being 50/50, do you regret it?
Should I push for at least primary residency?
Alternatively, I do not feel it is in the best interest of the children if I go for FULL custody.
*NOTE: I think its important to note for legality purposes, there was also
a previous child abuse allegations against her a few years ago that got
dissolved.
My situation:
My STBEW had many, many affairs. The last one (as far as I know for sure)
was about 18 months ago. I do not trust her, really at all. Some days I feel if I agree to 50/50 custody after the divorce, things will be ok.
But there are many other days I feel if I agreed to 50/50 custody, she will continue her selfish ways and not do what is in the best interest of our minor children.
For those of you that got a divorce and custody ended up being 50/50, do you regret it?
Should I push for at least primary residency?
Alternatively, I do not feel it is in the best interest of the children if I go for FULL custody.
*NOTE: I think its important to note for legality purposes, there was also
a previous child abuse allegations against her a few years ago that got
dissolved.