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According to my wife, there's no bigger turnoff than me worrying about if she's enjoying it, whether I'm doing it right, or especially whether or not she cums. She honestly enjoys it most when I just do it living in the moment.



The irony is that all those things i want for it to be good for her are only likely to happen if I'm not specifically focused on them. It is not logical, but it is so. It can be a difficult thing for a Type A, goal oriented, linear thinking man to adapt to.

Because she probably doesn’t want you to do sexual stuff FOR her, she wants you to do it TO her, for YOUR satisfaction.
When you are hungry, do you think much whether the food worries about whether you are chewing it efficiently? (Wow, that came out sexist!). Eat it as if you are starving!
She is self-conscious because you are (and the OP).
One of the most helpful tips my wife ever gave me was: USE me for your pleasure and my pleasure will reveal itself to you!

Don’t know where she comes up with these things....bible?


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I have a very easy to please and laid back Aussie husband. My main aim in sex is to make sure he enjoys it, which he does.
I often ask him if there is anything else he wants to do, and he usually says no, I enjoy what we do.

I always wondered that: is this a “are you satisfied with our services” type of question or do you wish he would ask for more things?

My wife has the wildest reactions when I am insatiable and can’t get enough of her...and most of the time I can’t get enough of her.



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Never had a woman say that to me, but I heard it is stamped on certain inflatables.

Well the inflatables must have got it all figured out then


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There's no doubt that phenomenon comes into play... to a degree.



I still have to be gentle. I can't go all rough and reckless no matter how randy I am. That'd be a hard stop right there.

That’s not what I meant...Being ‘hungry with lust’ doesn’t mean you have to spank her around. (Not straight away anyway...
It’s just a feeling that you have to convey and it has to be genuine.

Of course there will be women who won’t respond to it; they will find raw, ‘selfish’ drive offensive...
The women who sound and say stuff like your or OP’s wife don’t sound to me like those other women hence my response...There is no one ‘fix’ for all. If there was, I would be rich(er)...


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