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Hello,
My first time to post after lingering for some time. my wife and I seemingly are always at odds, but the latest argument is definitely taking the cake in intensity and ultimately I believe is leading to the dissolution of our marriage.
I've been told that it's my fault and I'm a complete a*****e. So what's the situation:
In essence, it comes down to other women. She believes, as firmly as possible, that a married person is unable to find ANYONE ON EARTH other than their wife good looking. This is absolute nonsense I believe, but she is going so far as to say that if I can find another woman good looking, then the marriage is over and meant nothing.
How did this come about you ask? it's not like I walk around saying someone is good looking or anything. I was asked what I thought a particular person looked like. Not wanting to lie to my wife, I told her she was a good looking girl and left it at that.
Well you'd think I had cheated on her by the response. She has claimed I don't love her, never have, that I'm having thoughts about this woman, etc, etc etc... None of which is remotely the case. I think my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world (and I tell her so all the time). We have an incredibly healthy sex life as well, so I'm not depriving her there at all.
So anyway, I guess I'm curious as to if I'm in the wrong. I think it's perfectly natural to find other people good looking and leave it at that. There's no hidden desire, no lust, no attraction (in the "i want so and so" sense)...
Right now, as crazy as it sounds, this seems to be the end of our marriage as my wife insists that no other man in the world, since she has met me, is better than average. *sigh*
What can I possibly do? This argument has lasted longer than anyone could dare guess, with her on my butt every day. I beg for her to stop and she won't. I try to reassure. Nothing works. I'm at a loss here.
Please help.
-areyoukiddingme
My first time to post after lingering for some time. my wife and I seemingly are always at odds, but the latest argument is definitely taking the cake in intensity and ultimately I believe is leading to the dissolution of our marriage.
I've been told that it's my fault and I'm a complete a*****e. So what's the situation:
In essence, it comes down to other women. She believes, as firmly as possible, that a married person is unable to find ANYONE ON EARTH other than their wife good looking. This is absolute nonsense I believe, but she is going so far as to say that if I can find another woman good looking, then the marriage is over and meant nothing.
How did this come about you ask? it's not like I walk around saying someone is good looking or anything. I was asked what I thought a particular person looked like. Not wanting to lie to my wife, I told her she was a good looking girl and left it at that.
Well you'd think I had cheated on her by the response. She has claimed I don't love her, never have, that I'm having thoughts about this woman, etc, etc etc... None of which is remotely the case. I think my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world (and I tell her so all the time). We have an incredibly healthy sex life as well, so I'm not depriving her there at all.
So anyway, I guess I'm curious as to if I'm in the wrong. I think it's perfectly natural to find other people good looking and leave it at that. There's no hidden desire, no lust, no attraction (in the "i want so and so" sense)...
Right now, as crazy as it sounds, this seems to be the end of our marriage as my wife insists that no other man in the world, since she has met me, is better than average. *sigh*
What can I possibly do? This argument has lasted longer than anyone could dare guess, with her on my butt every day. I beg for her to stop and she won't. I try to reassure. Nothing works. I'm at a loss here.
Please help.
-areyoukiddingme