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kelly m,
It's important to look at his actions and not his words.
I agree that this is not an issue that by simply learning their love language will fix. The man appears to be really commitment averse...and seems to be really to be on the fence. It looks like he has tried to overcome it, but being "locked" into a marriage may have made his commitment claustrophobia worse. It may be that he has not quite gotten over his regrets and failures concerning his first marriage.
It's important to look at his actions and not his words.
I agree that this is not an issue that by simply learning their love language will fix. The man appears to be really commitment averse...and seems to be really to be on the fence. It looks like he has tried to overcome it, but being "locked" into a marriage may have made his commitment claustrophobia worse. It may be that he has not quite gotten over his regrets and failures concerning his first marriage.
