Husband had an emotional affair. Admitted it, then decided it was just a friendship and he hid it because I'd be insecure. We were in this limbo place, supposedly working on it but it was me trying to sort through **** and him moping. He had a business trip recently with OM. For 12 days! I warned his against any non-professional contact. He lied, he went out to dinner with her alone, he never told me, I found out through pictures, long story short, I'm sick of this lying bastard and I want out. I want to prove fault, he has deleted most things with her. I have a few saved, how do I go about doing this? Install spying software on his work computer? Which do you recommend? Hire a private investigator? Suggestions please and no flaming. Thanks.