My husband didn't even masterbate to it our whole marriage ... but waited for ME (unheard of I realize this!! But he had no reason to lie - especially when I told him I did !)
He ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS had a craving to look at beautiful naken women...he's like the perfect husband -would never deny my needs, puts me 1st in everything, anything...but yet...this is a hobby of his....he is not into sports, he likes to collect Playboy bunnies.... I used to get upset, find this stuff on his computer -start deleting...he'd try to stay away but he'd crack....
Yrs ago (when I was more uptight- a little religious)...I'd tape scriptures to his desktop ....I cried one time. I just didn't "get it" / I didn't understand MEN....
Looking back...I can laugh at this now.... When we got our 1st Dell, the next day... he went to work & all these HOT Babes started popping up on the screen like Wildfire... I knew what he was up too !!
I was furious ~ called Dell , I think they got a chuckle out of my dilemma...I just wanted my home page back.
Now I love a little Porn...once I hit my sexual peak ... I think I like it more than him! I'd be ticked off if he wanted to restrain me from it. It in no way affects how I view him or my love for him, just as it never affected him towards me... we are closer than ever. It's even enhanced our experience, enjoying it together.
Another similar thread on this.... in my posts, I give links to books that can help you understand Men, I also talk about the hormonal influence on their brains, it's all about the higher levels of testosterone.
If , however , he is using it over you, this is a real problem. It can be very addicting, and a man should never never use Porn over a willing /giving wife & in place of intimacy in the marriage . That is just wrong in every degree.