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Oh my yes, she should certainly stop standing up for herself in setting her boundaries for the marriage, for what makes her happy and feel loved. To continue to allow her husband to manipulate her by misleading, lying to and doing things behind her back even though he knows how it makes her feel. Yes she should certainly turn her back on her self esteem, her moral code or beliefs because it's what all people do. Yes it would be better to feel rejected, defeated and resentful of her husband.

If this works in your marriage fine, great but don't assume it works in all. I tire of the threads that make the person who is being hurt by their spouse, feel they are at fault for not accepting porn as the norm. That they should just "embrace" it and get over their problem with it.

Porn was one of the issues in my marriage but I elected to respect my wife's wishes instead of trying to bend her around my own. We found common ground in respecting each others boundaries and the marriage recovered then flourished. If he can't then he'll have to accept the consequences. Probably divorce and the OP would be perfectly justified in that decision.



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I love this answer! I'm having a similar problem and it's great to hear a man say what you said. Thank you.
 
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