Poll - age of the cheaters

WH: 38 at the start

OW: 27 at the start

H's one and only. I figure, that because his AP is so unhappily married, that she's just getting started on a long career.
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As near as I can put it, she started adulterous behaviors (boundary loosening) around 35...

Actually where I’ve noticed another trend is how many years after the last child was born. Most stories I’ve noted seem to have kids between 2-6 when the affairs started. For my wife, that was when he turned 2.

Wife was 40
AP was 40
I was 39

Youngest child was 10

Only A that I know of - though it was an EA, which likely has different age results in this poll as compared to PAs

our youngest child is 5

I believe she had many affairs. The first I knew of but, had no proof was 2008. I think there were earlier affairs.

W= 46
POSOM= 40?

The others were at varying intervals since then. I just don't know when one started and another finished. Bottom line?

"Don't trust anyone; not even yourself. Someday you will fart and sh*t your pants."

Justadude said:

our youngest child is 5

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Wife - Started showing wayward tendencies around 33.
Her youngest child was 5.
OM' - Various ages from 35 - 48
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I was 30 when it started.
WW was 28.
AP was 26.

This was years ago. At the time of ONS -
WS - 30
OW - 19 or 20
ME - 32
Kids - 5 & 2

There might be two or three other coworkers he cheated with. I still have no confirmation on that. They were all early to mid 20s.

XW 42- first I knew of it.
Kids - 2 aged 10 & 12
OM- late 20s early 30s- I didn't invest much in him as we were quite done upon discovery and he was single- no spouse to expose to.

WH 31
OW 37 or 38?

Wife 37
Om 1 26 or 27
Om 2 40
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WH-38
OW 30
ME 34
our youngest is 5

Racer said:

As near as I can put it, she started adulterous behaviors (boundary loosening) around 35...

Actually where I’ve noticed another trend is how many years after the last child was born. Most stories I’ve noted seem to have kids between 2-6 when the affairs started. For my wife, that was when he turned 2.

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Our youngest was 2.

STBXW - 52
OM #1 - 54(DIVORCED)w/grown kids
OM #2 - 50(MARRIED)w/college-aged kids
Arbitrator - 58

I was the wh and was 46 the ow was 25 my bw was 31
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Wife 44 yr at start of EA (two kids 10 and 8)
OM 31 yr at start of EA (two kids 3 and 1)

Became physical one year later.

WW was 31 when she crossed first line (made out with a guy at a work conference in Asia).

WW was 35 when she had the full EA/PA (different guy, but started at international conference again)

We had two kids when she stepped out fully, 3 and almost 1.

POSOM was 43.

WH was 32 when his EA began, AP was 26, I was 30.
WH was 35 at the time of his ONS (different OW from EA, which was still ongoing at the time), OW was 48, I was 33.

WW 47
OM 48 or 49
Me 47
Kids of 13 and 16

I believe now that there was a previous affair but have no proof. That may have been 5 years ago.