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DH and I are in a good place in our marriage, I don't know if it's because I'm pregnant (w/#2) but stupid things are bothering me

I remember looking at the web history before on our computer and saw that he read a bunch of yahoo news articles, no big deal but also looked at some female celebrity pictures on there too...nothing like porn but literally like "see what racy dress X wore on Leno last night" :rolleyes:

I know, it's dumb. Just tell me it's my hormones and to stop overthinking it.
 

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Thanks, I hate feeling like this...it doesn't help that it's so freaking cold here, I hate being cooped up inside for so long. Thank you!
 

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FACT - If a man is on a legitimate news site and a link says "Click here to see how hot these pictures are", he WILL CLICK. It is a survival instinct that goes WAY BACK to caveman days.
 

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Hormones and I also think it's natural to feel more territorial (even about "dumb stuff") when you're pregnant and vulnerable.
I know the hormones answer doesn't make it the annoyance go away though.The only thing you can do is focus on the positive and maybe not look at the internet history for a while;)
 

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When I was pregnant with our first, H and I had bought a couch that didn't fit in the elevator, so he and a friend carried it up the stairs. He called me at work and told me and I flipped out. I was furious! I don't even know why, it just made me so angry. I even hung up on him. Then I cried.

Ah, pregnancy.
 

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When I was pregnant with our first, H and I had bought a couch that didn't fit in the elevator, so he and a friend carried it up the stairs. He called me at work and told me and I flipped out. I was furious! I don't even know why, it just made me so angry. I even hung up on him. Then I cried.

Ah, pregnancy.
He probably deserved it!
 

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When I was pregnant with our first, H and I had bought a couch that didn't fit in the elevator, so he and a friend carried it up the stairs. He called me at work and told me and I flipped out. I was furious! I don't even know why, it just made me so angry. I even hung up on him. Then I cried.

Ah, pregnancy.
Okay seriously, does this kind of thing happen?

What the hell did your husband say? OMG so awkward...:rofl:
 

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DH and I are in a good place in our marriage, I don't know if it's because I'm pregnant (w/#2) but stupid things are bothering me

I remember looking at the web history before on our computer and saw that he read a bunch of yahoo news articles, no big deal but also looked at some female celebrity pictures on there too...nothing like porn but literally like "see what racy dress X wore on Leno last night" :rolleyes:

I know, it's dumb. Just tell me it's my hormones and to stop overthinking it.
I'd say hormones too but then again, my wife would probably want a divorce if I did that. Seriously.
 

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Okay seriously, does this kind of thing happen?

What the hell did your husband say? OMG so awkward...:rofl:
I actually looked through my old emails because I remember that in retrospect, they were kind of funny. He was totally, utterly confused. He didn't quote my emails in his responses, so I don't know what I wrote, but I'm sure it was incoherent.

Finally it dawned on me that I was being crazy. It was like a moment of invasion of the body snatchers. Then I was just embarrassed, but H didn't make fun of me. I think he was afraid of the crazy striking again. (That was it though! It was just that one time. I mean, I'd cry a lot during sentimental commercials, but no more anger).
 
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