i have been with my husband for 3 years now. i have a very deep devotion to him and could never live without him. recently i have been feeling very unsexy and unwanted in any sexual manner. i have always been told i was very attractive and never had any problems when it comes to turning him on until lately. I have tried different outfits and different positions and nothing seems to work. a couple of days ago i found a bunch of porn on his desktop. it makes me wonder if he like those women instead of me. He lies about it all the time, saying its not his, that a friend sent it to him and so on. I dont know what to do. i feel disgusted when i think about his fantasizing about anyone but me. am i reading into this too much? Or is he really just not attracted to me anymore? How can i fix this? please help me i feel like im loosing him because of this.