I am in dire need of advise for my marriage. I feel like I am being controled by my husband. If I help my mom who is very sick he gets mad at me and won't talk to me. If I spend any money he gets really mad at me every though we never have to worry about it. He always says everything is my fault even if the baby gets sick if something goes wrong it is my fault or if his back hurts. Right now his back hurts and he says he can't do anything but he has the time to work on what he wants to. He says I am not allowed to have a credit card because we can't afford it. If the baby needs to go to the doctor then he just brushes it off. I am not happy in this marriage anymore and I don't what else to do. Please help me. Also he will not help me clean the house and take care of the baby or anything he says he has worked all day and is tired and doesn't want to. Then he gets mad at me if I don't get the house clean in between working and taking care of the baby.