Please edit your post and beak it up into paragraphs. IT's very hard to read a wall of words.
I agree. If she feared abandonment she would be hanging about him and doing all kinds of things to make him happy.You're right. Your wife is very troubled. As you can see, loving her won't fix that.
What exactly happened to her parents? This does not sound like a girl who fears abandonment.
Teach her some tough love! Take the car key away until she gets ic asap. Annulment sound appropiate right now.You married a little kid with alot of problems. Unless you're in it for the long haul and can take alot of punishment from her acting like that. It's probably best to cut your losses and run.
I know she needs help but if she won't help herself then in all honesty it's not your job to do it for her. Only married 6 months, get an annulment, and DON'T HAVE A KID WITH HER!
She's not marriage material right now.
If she would just leave does she really love you? I don’t think so. If the marriage and you mean nothing to her, why would you want her in your life?i understand the thing is she doesnt care about leaving she is very proud if i do that she would just leave
She is already on a bad path. What do you think she’s doing out there when she parties? What will happen if she gets pregnant? Will she give up the drinking? Is she doing drugs? Most likely? Will she give all that up to have a healthy baby?and im scare she will go on a bad path
This is an empty threat. What can she take from you? You have only been married for 6 months. She is only entitled to 50% of anything you both have acquired since you go married. Seriously what can she take? What state do you live in? That would be helpful to know to help you with stuff like this.also she said that she will divorce me and will take everything from me
She won’t get a job until she has to. She does not have to right now because you give her money, a car, food and roof over her head.now i love her and want the best for her sometimes she is good and sometimes she is pure evil like today i beg her to start applying online for a job she told me she will do it so by the end of the night i had to do the applications for her and she had a huge attitude when i ask her for some of her information
So get her into therapy.she is a really proud girl she will have a hard time apologizing she agree to take therapy
We teach people how to treat us. You have taught her that it’s ok to treat you this way. If you want peace in your life you will have to either dump her or change the way you interact with her. I’ve already given you the list for how to change the way you interact with her. But you don’t seem willing do what is necessary to make your marriage better. You are too afraid of her to do that. So you let her rule you with fear. Do you really think that a girl like her can find a guy attractive that she can control with her drama?but i been dealing with this treatment for 6 months i really dont think i deserve this treatment specially after eveything i do for her im just sad all the time i use to be a very happy person now i just want the day to end everyday so i dont have to deal with any of her drama and her temper
I know lots of people who had terrible childhoods. Few of them act the way she does. She’s using her childhood as an excuse and you buy into her drama. Shoot half the stuff she tells you about her childhood is probably not true or greatly distorted.i know u guys might say dump her but i love her and her childhood well she didnt had one i want for her not to hate life and realize that life can be beautiful
You can only feel like a failure if you let yourself feel that way. Again you are letting her rule you with her abuse and anger. You could stop all of this in one day if you took her car away from her and cut off the money. She’s using you. It does not even sound like she loves you. Why are you putting up with this?if i take the car keys she would go crazy if i cut her off she will make me fell like a failure and call be the worst
You live with your mother. Of course she already knows that your wife is hell. Your family knows. They are probably keeping their mouth shut in front of you. But they know and are probably wondering when you are going to man up and either set your boundaries and dump her.and so my family doesn’t see her true color i just do it so she won’t scream at me infront of my family i dont want my family to know how mean she is to me. but im sure the have an idea what do you think i can do or tell her or something to calm her down.