[lotsoflove]

I think Sisters359 is right. The only way to protect yourselves right now is to separate. The physical violence in your household from both ends is very concerning, not to mention the stress and danger for your babies. If you both resort to physical violence when you are angry, what will stop you from hitting your children? I am not trying to be harsh, but this sounds like a very unhealthy relationship.

I hope you can both get the help that you need, for yourselves and your little ones. You need to separate, yesterday.

Sorry for your situation.