It means he is trying to sweep what he has done under the mat - rug-sweeping.
He probably does not realise what he has engaged in is an affair, as hurtful to a spouse as a physical affair (PA), if not more hurtful sometimes.
There are some good 'stickies' at the top of the coping with infidelity forum (CWI), those & some of the other posters will give you good advice.
You need to make sure he has stopped ALL contact with the other women (OW). As his wife you should have free access to his phone, computer, email, facebook accounts. If he complains about having his privacy invaded, then he more than likely has something to hide.
From what you have said, he is fine communicating electronically with other women, he just can't communicate face to face with you. If he will go to councelling, I strongly urge you to do that, but be wise with your choice of coucellor. You do want one who is knowledgable about emotional affairs (EA)
He probably does not realise what he has engaged in is an affair, as hurtful to a spouse as a physical affair (PA), if not more hurtful sometimes.
There are some good 'stickies' at the top of the coping with infidelity forum (CWI), those & some of the other posters will give you good advice.
You need to make sure he has stopped ALL contact with the other women (OW). As his wife you should have free access to his phone, computer, email, facebook accounts. If he complains about having his privacy invaded, then he more than likely has something to hide.
From what you have said, he is fine communicating electronically with other women, he just can't communicate face to face with you. If he will go to councelling, I strongly urge you to do that, but be wise with your choice of coucellor. You do want one who is knowledgable about emotional affairs (EA)