I'm not into "taming" a Player, for me, once a Player ~ likely always... even if he fools around and falls in love.......that seed is lurking within... it may sprout at any time in his future.
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I disagree
To be honest I don't even really see the distinction between a player or normal men. To me I either see folks with game or not. And the game doesn't have to be cruel, either then a few teases here and there. You don't have to break hearts when you're playing the game but still get what you want.
For almost all of my mates, we've all been there - our first loves, our times when we got p-ssywhipped, the times when we got tempted, the times when we scored and the times when we failed, the trophies that we had, the fantasies forfilled, the heartbreaks, etc etc etc... Then the times when we learnt how to handle, understand, and inevitably appreciate and love a woman in our lives.
Men go through stages, playing the game can be just one chapter in one's life, some continue, others settle. How can one judge a person based on one chapter of his life? I was a criminal when I was young, now I've made something good of my life all by myself while everyone continued to judge me, am I to be called a criminal forever?
And I wouldn't trust those player books, some of it has good tips but many I utterly disagree with. I go my own way and I enjoy the game. I've always been honest with even casuals in the past and let them know where they stood. When some of those ended up liking me more and more, then what I can say? I've already warned them. I don't lead them on.
It's irritating that when you tell a woman to back off and not get emotionally entangled they want you more... -.-
I enjoy the game more than most to the point I even enjoy it more than sex as I like the challenge, the hunt, the thrill of the chase, but when it comes down to it, there's just no point for men to break a woman's heart when we just want to get laid - and many men understand that.