I read somewhere on here someone said 'if it is important to you, you'll find a way. If not, an excuse'. I really wish I could remember who posted it, it really helped me get through to my husband on areas where he was just not doing anything in an important area that needed his active participation.
Maybe it will help you to filter things through that funnel. Stop finding excuses. It shows up plainly when someone has time, energy and interest for some things, yet no drive at all in others that are on the top of a SO's list, or that will help feed the relationship. It says 'you aren't valued enough for these things to be a priority to me'.
Maybe it will help you to filter things through that funnel. Stop finding excuses. It shows up plainly when someone has time, energy and interest for some things, yet no drive at all in others that are on the top of a SO's list, or that will help feed the relationship. It says 'you aren't valued enough for these things to be a priority to me'.