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i've read a lot of the advice for improving a marriage on these forums and when i try them they work. things like planning a night out, being decisive or cooking a special meal. the problem i find is that i need to find time to sit down and plan and often something will come up at work or at home and i'll put it off or put myself off thinking it is too lame. my brain seems to self sabotage, not try and i'm not sure why. its crazy.
we just had a big fight so i've got a few days of silence to plan but i need someway of getting it in to my stupid brain that if i don't try i'll lose and possibly lose my family just for being lazy. it's bizarre. explanation or help would be good.
we just had a big fight so i've got a few days of silence to plan but i need someway of getting it in to my stupid brain that if i don't try i'll lose and possibly lose my family just for being lazy. it's bizarre. explanation or help would be good.