I have done some thinking about this. I think with age a couple things have changed for her. 1 her hormones have definitely changed. In the past she has gone into phases of very high sex drive, these periods would last a few weeks to a couple of months and there would be months in between these swings. For the past 2-3 years she has been high drive consistently. Also since around the time she has become very orgasmic her clitoris has gotten slightly larger and I believe her G-spot has as well. She can orgasm with light pressure on the outside of her vagina, not clitoris stimulation needed just a little tickling which tells me her G-spot is also much more sensitive.How many years did it take for that trust to build?
Surrender makes it happen.
I’m found this thread interesting.
I’ve heard of women having difficulty O from PIV, but hardly experienced it.
I think also since for so many years she had a hard time orgasming from PIV we never really tried to hard for that and would be doing a lot of oral and she would be orgasmed out from that by the time PIV even began.
Another thing that is different is I have been home most days as I have semi retired. We are sexually playful with each other all day and maybe the constant buildup has just got her that much more turned on in a heightened state of arousal by bed time.
There is an explanation in there somewhere. It's definitely not an issue of surrender or trust that has never been an issue. It's some mix of hormonal, physical, situational. Another factor may be we reached the point of real financial security a few years ago and her stress level with her career and everything else has gone to zero for the most part. Prior to a few years ago she always had a hard time shutting off her brain from work stuff and the kids are very self sufficient now as well so she has become a working lady of leisure as she says.